If you clicked on here to actually really read it, your friends are nearer to not being real to you. Because why would you need to read this otherwise?
Okay....even if that is not the case. Let's get to the real points.
1)You don't really feel comfortable around them. -If you feel you are shrinking and losing your sense of identity, they are not your friend.
2)They force their ideas of you on you. -"Oh but she can take the bus cause she's so independent." "Oh, she doesn't need to come with us in our car, she can manage, she's so smart." -Comments like that is when you should run away.
3)You feel lonely no matter what. -You feel as if they don't see you for you and you have a numbness in you whenever you see. Joy isn't there. And there is no way you belong to them.
These 3 points can clarify everything for you.